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Rudbeckia โRubyโ de Borgia
How to Win My Husband Over (Tapas โข 122 chapters โข Ongoing)
๐ Manhwa Info
- Official platform: Tapas (series page)
- Status: Ongoing
- Chapters: 122 (ongoing)
- Creators: Spice&Kitty โข SIRU
- Genres: Manhwa โข Webtoon โข Shoujo(G) โข Drama โข Fantasy โข Full Color โข Romance
๐ฉต Character Overview
- Full name: Rudbeckia de Borgia (๋ฃจ๋๋ฒ ํค์ ๋ฐ ๋ณด๋ฅดํํ)
- Also known as: Rudbeckia van Omerta โข The Young Duchess of Omerta
- Nicknames / epithets: Ruby (๋ฅ๋น) โข Princess of Romania โข The Lark of Cistina
- Age: 18
- Height: 157 cm (5’2″)
- Status: Alive
- Affiliation: Omerta Family (formerly Romania Church)
- Base of operation: Britannia Kingdom (formerly Romania)
- Debuts: Novel Ch. 1 โข Manhwa Ep. 1
โจ Appearance
Ruby is described as a young lady with long, curly golden hair and bright blue eyesโfragile, small, and doll-like. People often clock her โinnocent youthful beauty,โ and sheโs seen in various outfits and accessories. Her warm smile tends to disarm peopleโฆ which is kinda the point.
๐ง Personality
She performs innocence: cheerful, absent-minded, clumsy, overly expressiveโbecause it helps her look harmless. Under the act, Ruby is intelligent and observant, reading rooms and people fast, showing them what they want to see.
Ruby is deeply afraid of pain and death (especially with the future sheโs trying to avoid). Years of manipulation by her father and brothers left her anxious, self-blaming, and constantly assuming others hate herโyet she still wants freedom and control over her own life.
๐ฐ The People Around Her
Omerta Side
- Iske van Omerta: Husband
- Elenia van Omerta: Sister-in-law
- Duke & Duchess Omerta: Parents-in-law
Borgia Side
- Pope de Borgia: Adoptive father
- Julia de Borgia: Adoptive mother
- Cezar de Borgia: Adoptive older brother
- Enzo de Borgia: Adoptive older brother
- Carmen: Biological mother (Popeโs second mistress)
โ๏ธ Background & Lore
In her previous life, Ruby was an orphan from South Korea adopted by a wealthy elite Spanish family as a โcharity case.โ Rudbeckia had access to luxury and prestige, but still wasnโt acceptedโbullied and ostracized. The only person kind to her was her older sister, who died by suicide at 21, leaving Ruby isolated. In a home that โlooked perfectโ but wasnโt, Ruby learned that acting bright, cheerful, and submissive was survival.
At 16, she encountered the online fantasy novel Sodom and The Holy Grail. As Rudbeckia, she was born to Carmen, who died right after giving birth. In that story, Rudbeckia is a villainess fated to die by her husbandโs handโso now Rubyโs entire life becomes a calculation: survive the Borgias, survive the Omertas, survive the plot.
๐ Synopsis (Story Setup)
โI have found the perfect groom for you.โ
When the Pope announces her engagement, Ruby is instantly sick with dreadโbecause she knows the groom is the very man whoโs supposed to kill her in the future: Iske van Omerta, the โgolden boyโ of the north. To survive, she smiles, performs gratitude, and says what keeps her safeโbecause in her house, honesty gets punished.
She leaves for Britannia determined to look harmless to everyoneโespecially the Omerta family, who may see her as a spy. Even when love starts to show up, Rubyโs fear doesnโt vanish; sheโs always waiting for the rug to get pulled out.
๐ซ Trivia
- Inspiration: Loosely based on Lucrezia Borgia (rumors of incest echo through Rubyโs reputation).
- Rumors: Incest rumors surround her and her brother (but not her father).
- Name meaning: Rudbeckia is a flower (daisy family), and may also be interpreted as โAir in the sun.โ
- Poison parallels: Lucrezia Borgia was accused of poison use; Ruby is suspected in the poisoning rumors around Freya.
๐ฌ My Impression
Ruby hits you with instant heartbreak: the story opens with her being told about the arranged marriage while sitting on her adoptive brotherโs lap (actually vile). At home sheโs beaten, used as a pawn, and trapped in a terrifying dynamic where her brotherโs obsession turns incestuousโso marriage becomes the only escapeโฆ except she knows the Omertas will hate her and suspect her.
In the manhwa, her anorexia (stress-induced) goes unnoticed until Elenia realizes whatโs happening. Then you get the maid problems, the childhood friend problems, and the worst part: Ruby is in โenemy territory,โ so her suffering is dismissed as attention-seeking. The lack of reassurance hurts because Ruby genuinely believes any warmth can vanish overnight.
Freyaโs framing attempts were infuriatingโespecially the โfinal strawโ when she pushes the incest rumor to Iske after a brutal incident where Cezar kisses her in front of witnesses. Freya tried to use what people saw to destroy Ruby, without understanding how abusive and toxic that relationship truly was. She then gets the shock of a lifetime when she tries to make Iske, Elenia and the knights follow Ruby to “unmask” her only to find Cezar betting her.
Healing takes time after abuse on that scale, but itโs not impossible. Ruby deserves the world, point blank.
Overall vibe: โA soft smile as armor โ a survivor learning to live for herself.โ
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โจ Related Character โจ
Iske van Omerta
Rubyโs husband, protector, and the man she was fated to die by. A cold northern knight with his own scars โ and a lot more depth than first impressions suggest.
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